The Johor Bahru's Women, Family, Health and Community Development Committee Chairman Dr Robia Kosai have slammed the Obedient Wives Club ( OWC ) calling it an insult to women and family institution. The OWC Vice President Dr. Rohaya Mohamed said that "Women must served their husbands like first class prostitutes." This is prevent their husbands from engaging in extra marital affairs and engaging in commercial sex. The OWC is also proposing sex lessons for women - I guess it is to teach women to become better or first class prostitutes.
I find the OWC and its agenda very amusing indeed. So husbands strayed because their wives are not first class prostitutes. When women strayed and engaged in extra marital affairs, does it mean that their husbands are not first class gigolo or stud? If it is really that simple, then there is no need for marriage counselling; because the reason is mainly sex or the lack of it. Everyone of us who are married just have to be a first class prostitute or gigolo and their marriage will be fine.
I adopt a neutral stand on OWC and its agenda. If this club becomes more popular with Muslim women in Malaysia, so be it. Each of us have different views towards marriage, the roles of spouses and sex. For women in Malaysia who are strongly against the views of the OWC, I suggest that they form their own Clubs; set out its own agenda and start attracting women to their clubs.
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